Matchmaking in astrology, especially in Vedic astrology, is a significant aspect of marital and relationship compatibility. The process of evaluating compatibility involves comparing the birth charts (horoscopes) of two individuals, primarily focusing on how their planetary placements, signs, houses, and aspects interact.

In Vedic astrology, this compatibility assessment is called “Kundali Milan” (or “Ashtakoota Milan”). It’s an ancient and well-established system of matching horoscopes to determine if two individuals are a good match for marriage or long-term partnership. Let’s go through the main principles and techniques of matchmaking in Vedic astrology.

Key Aspects of Vedic Matchmaking:

1. Ashtakoota Milan (Eight Koota System): The Ashtakoota Milan system compares the horoscopes of the individuals by assigning a score to eight key points, or Kootas. Each Koota represents a specific aspect of compatibility. The total score from all eight Kootas is then calculated, and a higher score typically indicates a more harmonious relationship.

   The 8 Kootas are:

   • Varna (1st Koota): This represents the spiritual compatibility between the partners and their basic nature. It compares the “Varna” (caste) or inner essence of both individuals. The idea is that individuals with similar spiritual aspirations are more likely to live in harmony.

   • Vashya (2nd Koota): This checks the dominance and submission aspect between the two individuals. It measures who holds more emotional or mental power in the relationship. Ideally, both partners should have a balanced level of dominance.

   • Tara (3rd Koota): This assesses the luck and fortune compatibility between the partners. Tara compares their birth stars (Nakshatras) and examines how the planets align to ensure a favorable and prosperous relationship.

   • Yoni (4th Koota): This indicates sexual compatibility and how well the couple’s emotional and physical needs align. The Yoni compatibility checks the signs of the Moon to understand the emotional and sexual rapport between them.

   • Graha Maitri (5th Koota): This looks at the mental compatibility of the couple. It compares the Moon and Venus positions in both horoscopes, assessing how well their emotions and mental needs complement each other.

   • Gana (6th Koota): This evaluates temperamental compatibility. It divides people into three categories: Deva (godly), Manushya (human), and Rakshasa (demonic). People in the same category (Deva, Manushya, or Rakshasa) are generally more compatible.

   • Bhakoot (7th Koota): This examines emotional compatibility and the long-term relationship potential. It compares the Moon signs and checks the compatibility of their emotional well-being and long-term affection.

   • Nadi (8th Koota): This is the most important Koota and examines the health and progeny aspect of the relationship. It compares the Nadi (pulse) of the couple. If both partners belong to the same Nadi, it can lead to issues in fertility or health, and in such cases, it’s considered a bad match. Ideally, the partners should have different Nadis.

Points to Consider in Matchmaking:

1. Manglik Dosha (Kuja Dosha):

   • One important factor in Vedic astrology matchmaking is the presence of Manglik Dosha. If one or both individuals have Mars placed in certain houses (specifically the 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th house), they are considered Manglik.

   • Manglik Dosha can bring about difficulties in marriage, including delays, emotional turmoil, or even separation in some cases. However, it’s not necessarily a deal-breaker, and there are various remedies like Kumbh Vivah or Chandrashtaksha that can help mitigate its effects.

2. Doshas and Remedies:

   • Kaal Sarpa Dosha: In this dosha, all planets are placed between Rahu and Ketu, which could create obstacles in marriage and relationships. Remedies like chanting mantras or performing specific rituals are often suggested.

   • Pitra Dosha: This dosha relates to ancestral karmic influences, and it may affect relationships. Performing Pitra Tarpan (rituals for ancestors) could alleviate the dosha.

3. Dasha Matching:

   • Another important factor in matchmaking is the Dasha system, which governs the planetary periods in an individual’s life. When matching horoscopes, astrologers look at whether the partners are going through compatible Dasha periods. For example, if one person is going through a Saturn Dasha and the other is going through a Jupiter Dasha, there might be tension due to the conflicting nature of the planets.

4. Venus and Mars Compatibility:

   • In addition to Ashtakoota Milan, Vedic astrologers also consider the placement of Venus (the planet of love and relationships) and Mars (the planet of passion and energy). Their positions in each person’s chart can indicate how well the partners will relate in romantic and sexual aspects of the relationship.

Points to Check in Kundali Matching:

• Moon Sign Compatibility: The Moon sign (rashi) and Nakshatra (birth star) are very important when matching horoscopes for marriage. Emotional compatibility and mental peace are heavily influenced by the Moon, so its placement in both charts is analyzed.

• Navamsa Chart: The Navamsa chart (D9 chart) is specifically used for marriage and relationships in Vedic astrology. A well-placed 7th house or strong Venus in the Navamsa chart is considered favorable for a happy and stable marriage.

• Planetary Aspects: The aspects between key planets in both charts (such as Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn) help astrologers understand how the two individuals’ energies align or conflict.

Compatibility Score:

In the Ashtakoota system, a compatibility score is given:

• A score of 18 points or higher is generally considered good for a harmonious marriage.

• A score below 18 could indicate potential challenges, but it doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship will be unsuccessful. However, in such cases, remedies or consultations with an experienced astrologer may be advised.

Remedy Suggestions if Compatibility is Low:

If the Ashtakoota score is low or certain doshas are present, there are several remedies:

• Poojas and Rituals: Special prayers or rituals may be performed to alleviate doshas (e.g., Manglik Dosha or Kaal Sarpa Dosha).

• Gemstone Therapy: Wearing gemstones associated with benefic planets may help to enhance compatibility.

• Mantras: Chanting specific mantras for the planets influencing the marriage can help improve the relationship.

• Astrological Rituals for Mars or Venus: If Mars or Venus is afflicted, remedies like Chandrashtaksha or Mangal Dosh Nivaran Pooja may be recommended.

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